Please Choose The First Boss, Not The First Job

For most students, you are basically still "training" in the first three years of entering the society. Yes, what you learned in school is just a joke according to industry standards. In addition to "hard" knowledge, you also have to learn more and more important "soft" skills - communication skills, the art of persuasion, upward management, colleague relations, project cooperation, response to advance and retreat, on-the-spot reaction, decision making, and responsibility. These are all things you have never experienced before and need many years of learning to really get started.

Who will you learn these things from? Yes, your first boss And your first group of colleagues. In short, if the society is a school, your first boss is your junior high school teacher, and others are your junior high school classmates. The junior high school is probably the most important stage for everyone to develop their personality, which is the first three years of entering the society. That's why people often say that the first boss is the most important, because his influence on your values throughout your life is often greater than your parents and teachers.

To put it more simply, most of my peers have been in the society for more than ten years, and the gap between the achievements and wealth accumulated by everyone now may have reached ten times. The people who observed the "Victory Group" were definitely not the ones who chose "A job has a higher bonus". On the contrary, they chose "which boss can let me learn the most from him" and "which boss is worth following".

The reason is very simple. Ten years after entering the society, where you can stand does not depend on what school you graduated from or which company you stayed in. Ten years after joining the society, your value is what strength you have accumulated in the past ten years. The person who has really accumulated energy will become a scarce general and a treasure for everyone to compete for. Only people who have "worked" for ten years, Well， He is just a senior employee.

So of course, you are not choosing one work It is a social science park that allows you to learn the most things, especially the most valuable soft skills. So you should choose the first boss carefully, because he is to show you Communication skills The bright light of management methods, values and philosophy of life is the master who can make you become a famous sword ten years later.

As for how to choose the first boss? In fact, it is also very simple. It is to choose the leader that you can admire and admire. I hope you can become his leader one day. So when you go to an interview, remember that not only the boss is testing you, but also you should know more about him. Remember to ask him many questions about his outlook on life and values. Believe me, a really good leader will appreciate those who ask these questions. And if you want to be more sure, no problem, just go to the company for internship first. Cohabitation before marriage is always the best strategy. This is why some people say that internship is actually the best sneaking step before entering the society.